Love; Somthing that can be painful but yet everlasting happiness.( According to Todd's Definition) So why is it so easy to fall in love and hard to let love go.
First, Its only hard when you truely had deep love feelings for this person. When you start loving someone deep like that, of course its going to be hard, but why does it take along time to forget. The reason is because your scared none would ever love you the same way he/she did. You have to learn to know that, yes this person might have been the guy/girl of your dreams but every story isnt a happy ending. When you let a chapter go another chapter would open, and you will find someone that loves you probably even more than the last, but you have to make sure you can love again. If you cant get over the fact that your pass lover doesnt love you anymore, then your in trouble and in deep denial that your dream relationship that you told to all your friends and family that you finaly found the one that its really over. You have to get over it and move on! Your wasteiing time crying over love that is gone. Of course he/she is probably not crying over you, so why should you? Now move right after it happens. The longer you wait, the worst it will get.
Its soo easy to fall in love because you want to feel what love is and all the things it can do to you. You love the feeling of feeling loved and love someone else. Its a powerful feeling that Im sure everyone wants and would probably do anything to get it.... like putting in more work just so the person can notice you so they can love you. You do things to make them love you which I feel is stupid. Love should come natural between both people, and if it just doesnt come natural its not going to last as long as you want it to last. So try not to love so easy, and when you do that, when the love is over it wont be so hard to forgive.
- TPH
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