Welcome to another inside announcement from my "Crazy In LOVE Black Book" Well today we will both learn what love means from other people other then ourselves. I stated before what I thought about the word LOVE and as many of us know, it can be very painful with just a simple kiss.
Im sure many of you might know of the site Wiki Answers. Well for those of you who have never heard of Wiki; is a site where you can answer questions someone else has asked, are post your own question for feedback from others. Well I type in the question im 100% sure someone has asked before. That question was, what is love? (<-- Click here to review the answers) Okay after reviewing many answers, I came about some answers that, makes me what to talk more about.
The first answer, that I feel could probably go in my little "Crazy In LOVE Black Book" (what I call my in-my-head-love-book) under chapter WHAT THE HELL? Would be this, and I quote. "Love is when you care about someone else more than you care about yourself. It means you would rather make them happy than make yourself happy." HUMMM I gave that one alot of thought and I must say, this person must be a damn fool. Im sorry but I really dont get to personal but this person cant be serious? For one, I feel that before you even start to LOVE someone else you must first LOVE your self, and if you dont LOVE yourself first, then the relationship is not going to last over a month. Before anyone start a relationship they must love themselves first then express your love for yourself onto another, and share that love together, which would create a never ending love between the two. Now loving someone else more than yourself does sound alittle crazy, but in many relationships today people are loving someone more than themselves that, they forget about why they are even alive and living, that they are living for someone else and not even enjoying their life! People must stop and look in the mirror and realize what is going on in their relationship and how to get it back to 50/50 love.
The second answer that I found got me thinking pretty hard because for one, I never viewed love in the way they did, and still confused about it. The Answer states, and I quote, " ok listen up love is life no matter what any one says cuz in my research it has shown that more people die earlier when they dont have someone to share it with even if its family or your best friend someone you cant survive without love so to speak if its dumb love young love sexual love or even puppy love its still love and thats all we have in this world is LOVE". Okay, Its many things I agree with and some im confused about. I'am starting to think LOVE is LIFE. Without life, how could be even love, so of course love is life, but many people who are living are put into certain sistuations where its hard to love, and probably dont even know what true love means, more of what they was taught about love. This person said that "from their personal research, more people die earlier when they dont have someone to share it with. " Well you named all things living, but I find that confusing because its more then just people to love. Some people love writing, some people love Art, swimming, music, etc. It's no reason for more people to die earlier if they dont have someone to share their interest with because its many other things to love then people. Trust, if that is true, many people should start to love a hobby. Start somthing you love doing and be happy doing it!
Enough was said so far about what is love, that I hope you realize that love is one of many words without a definition. - TPH
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