Hello,
Well I would first like to start off by saying I have never been in a serious relationship with anyone. I know many of my friends and people I dont know is reading this but maybe my advice could help you with your relationship. People say the perfect advice is from someone who "been there done that"...well I say the perfect advice is from the person that listen to it all and was a eye-full ear-open stand by person. Which I would call myself that. Many of my friends tell me all their deepest secrets and love problems and how much they love their mate, and all I do is soak it in. Its nice to get head-ups from other people about their problems and problem-solving secrets to staying happy in love... are maybe unhappy in love. But I would say L-O-V-E is power. And with that power you must know how to use that power to your advantage. I will now list the steps on how to use LOVE to your advantage.
1. The number one rule to my LOVE Advantage black book would be, and I mean listen to what I tell you. First! You never love someone who doesnt love you. Never tell the person you love them if you have a feeling they dont love you back the same way. It is important to protect your emotions and your heart. Never give more than the other.
2. Now that you have control over your LOVE and emotions, your ahead of this lust your having with someone. Lets just say this person really likes you. You tell them all the negative things you get annoyed by what they say and do. They now realize that you have reasons to not really talk to them but yet your still dating. This makes the person feel like okay, maybe they need to just do alittle more to impress you, so now you kinda have them in the palm of your hand.
3. Let this person believe that you love them, but yet not risking your life. You would only do this if you truely feel that the relationship is going to blossom. This puts you at the top of their list, here they are thinking they really have your full attention. Tell them what they want to hear and do your own thing.
4. Love could also bring you gifts. Its nice to feel like a Queen or King in the relationship, when someone is showering your with extraordinary gifts. If someone really love you, are "like" you, they will try to impress you to their fullest, either taking you out but paying for it to be exact. Buying you gifts, but this is how they buy you gifts that you want. People now days dont want fucking flowers. Like OMG... flowers are good with the actual gift, but just flowers, I mean yes its romantic and sweet, but do you seriously want something that is going to die? That just shows that the relationship is dying. Get somthing that would last forever, but yet has memories. Nice jewelry would be great, I love fashion, so clothes is a plus! Just nice things that would really put a smile on your face. Now just because you like gifts doesnt mean your a gold-digger, it just means you have high standards and if a guy/girl would go beyond to et the things you want, then this person must be your dream guy/girl/
5. Final step. Now that this person is getting to know the things you like and what you dont like aabout them, show them your inner beauty. Let them into your world. I mean a sleep over would be cool. Let him/her hang out with your friends, to get to know the kind of crowd you hang around and things you really like to do when he/she is not around. Now that he/she has got to know more about you, they are for sure so in love with you its crazy! This is why my little love black book is called "Crazy In Love" because its crazy what love can do for you, and get for you to .
I hope this has help you learn alittle more about how love can change your life and others. But why do people want to be loved so much. Im single and not in love. And I love that. When the time comes, it will come. So I'll enjoy my single non-loving life while I have it, because when I do Love, I wont be able to love again or the same I hope.
Forever and a day,
TPH
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