Todd

My Top 7 Albums of 2009

2009-12-29T11:41:00.001-08:00

Re: Transgender "Crackhead" Maces Kid

2009-10-23T11:44:00.001-07:00

Hidden Affairs: prenuptial agreement

2009-10-23T01:55:00.001-07:00

Only's Sex Tips 1

2009-10-01T19:20:00.001-07:00

MY TATTOO!

2009-08-30T12:22:00.001-07:00

Before the club talk: Trinity and I

2009-08-12T12:32:00.001-07:00

Drake falls on stage(my husband) Rocsi's past of Anorexia!

2009-08-01T17:09:00.001-07:00

And I call her BEYONCE...

2009-08-01T14:58:00.001-07:00

Thank you for the support!

2009-08-01T14:56:00.001-07:00

Re. Double Whammy TAG!!!

2009-07-12T10:44:00.001-07:00

Stomp The Pavement(Crack The Frame And Make Her Bleed)

2009-06-24T11:01:00.001-07:00

This is an amazing track by ! get it boo... find him at youtube/Timaya

ch2

2009-06-19T23:45:00.001-07:00

S2E28: dating downlow gay men

2009-06-09T23:59:00.001-07:00

S2E27: You gets nothin... Unless that n**gas' on point

2009-06-09T07:32:00.001-07:00

S2E26: Masculine Gays vs. Feminine Gays

2009-05-31T12:28:00.001-07:00

S2E21: One Year No SEX! VIDEO 1

2009-05-24T10:21:00.001-07:00

S2E20: Reality is something you rise above

2009-05-23T12:32:00.001-07:00

MEN AND REJECTIONMUSIC SHOWCASE

2009-05-22T23:16:00.001-07:00

S2E19: FYI: Random topics! Miss USA "RUNNER UP" IS a hot mess....

2009-05-18T20:45:00.001-07:00

S2E18: my secrets to clear skin

2009-05-14T01:28:00.001-07:00

S2E16: Only CALLS Jowork at 2:35am!

2009-05-06T08:27:00.001-07:00

JUDGING GAY PEOPLE1

2009-05-03T22:21:00.001-07:00

S2E15: Reality TV Gossip, Team Lil Kim DWTS, College Hill Review, HW of New York, GAY! Solange-Tony

2009-04-30T23:55:00.001-07:00

SEX-SEX-SEX: TonyaTko Dishes the Dirt on Disease

2009-04-19T22:09:00.001-07:00

A few ?s.......Time 2 go 2 war!

2009-04-19T09:12:00.001-07:00

S2E14: Getting my ear pierced

2009-04-19T06:20:00.001-07:00

Paper Bag Mini Album Tutorial

2009-04-17T12:52:00.001-07:00

S2E13: Beyonce, Halle Berry, Details Magazine, Top 5 dvds, Team Aubrey

2009-04-16T17:02:00.001-07:00

11 year old takes life cause of homophobia2

2009-04-15T00:57:00.001-07:00

S2E12: Homosexuals can be Homophobic Part 1

2009-04-12T00:01:00.001-07:00

ACTV #17: Relationshops

2009-04-10T14:36:00.001-07:00

Kelly McDonald- Audition for John M Chu's Movie!

2009-03-24T23:25:00.001-07:00

Busy, Roomates from hell, Popeyes Chicken, Eletric is off, Moving in 24 days!

2009-03-14T17:54:00.001-07:00

S2E9: Born Gay?

2009-03-03T14:21:00.001-08:00

S2E8: 3 Gay Questions/Answers For The Closet Gays.

2009-02-25T12:57:00.001-08:00

The Word "Faggot" promo

2009-02-14T17:46:00.001-08:00

ONLY'S VAULT

2009-02-03T11:10:00.001-08:00

Misery LOVES Company [Loft XVA6]

2009-01-28T23:19:00.001-08:00

Fluffy talks about her stance on gay marriage, prop 8, and the millions for marriage petition

2009-01-25T18:13:00.001-08:00

Only's Vault S2E2: Blind Can't Lead The Blind

2009-01-21T21:00:00.001-08:00

Only's Vault Ep 47: Its A God In Me

2008-12-11T18:49:00.001-08:00

Black Gay Week: Wednesday with Only on

2008-12-10T22:03:00.001-08:00

Only At Youtube 09'

2008-12-09T12:09:00.001-08:00

Estate Of Panic - Episode 4 Part 3

2008-12-05T18:57:00.001-08:00

go to part 5:40 funny as hell...

Only's Vault Ep 46: YOUTUBE CRUSH???

2008-12-04T17:25:00.001-08:00

Only's Vault Ep 44: Fake Ass Friends

2008-12-04T15:37:00.001-08:00

VENOM'S poem

2008-12-03T13:22:00.001-08:00

onlyoneofme7 Ep 42: Me and My DRUNK BOOs Part 1

2008-11-30T14:40:00.001-08:00

onlyoneofme7 EP 42: Me and My DRUNK BOOs Part 2

2008-11-30T14:38:00.001-08:00

Happy Thanksgiving!!!!

2008-11-29T00:30:00.001-08:00

Xem VanAdams' Mission!

2008-11-26T11:06:00.001-08:00

onlyoneofme7 Ep 41: CREATE YOUR OWN STYLE!

2008-11-22T12:25:00.001-08:00

My Top 3: UGLY BETTY, STYLISTA, PROJECT RUNWAY

2008-11-22T10:36:00.000-08:00

Well many of you should know that my major is Fashion Design & Merchandising. I figured that I should embody that desire and lust I have for fashion into my daily life. One of which would be my entertainment after a rough day at school, are a busy day at work, is to sit home eat cake and maybe ice cream, okay lets get real here, cheese burgers and Chinese Food and watch my favorite fashion TV shows. I would name my top three that inspire me and give me fire to my flame for fashion.

1. Ugly Betty. For those of you who don’t watch Ugly Betty, Ugly Betty is a TV show about a lovely girl who is an assistant to a major fashion magazine. She does the normal things any assistant would do, but face challenges on a daily basis and does a great job in succeeding the task. It is the TV show for those who would love a career in Fashion Magazine, or Publications. It takes you behind the scenes of what could possibly happen on a normal work day. It is the TV show for that Fashion LOVER, and is why it is my number one TV show.

2. Stylista. Stylista is for those stylist, and also editors who love fashion and fashion magazines. It is a reality show, which is produced by the same producers of America’s Next Top Model, and is a very entertaining show to watch. It takes you behind the scenes on how a fashion magazine is really put together. This is my dream, and to watch others who share the same is amazing, because I feel if they can do it, so can I.

3. Project Runway. Project Runway is the reality show for those inspiring Fashion Designers. It is a reality TV show that takes lovely Fashion Designer hopefuls and they each battle the sewing machine for a spot in New York Fashion Week, and one hundred thousand dollars to start their own label. Only one winner, and so far they really entertain me with their creative minds and vision on fashion and their own taste. It’s a hard working show that I am sure is what many future designers look up to and see how its like under pressure and working on the whole fit of the design and how it comes about.

Well those were my Top 3 Favorite TV SHOWS. As you notice they all mostly deal with FASHION. From Magazine Print, Assistant Jobs, Editorial, Fashion Runway, Fashion Design, to even Styling all are apart of my future. I watch and get inspired from those who are just like me, which Is why I think many who also have a dream like me should pursue it and go for what you have a passion for. It could be whatever you like, just as long as at the end of the day your HAPPY, and living the best life you could live.

Onlyoneofme7 Ep 40: DREAM BIG

2008-11-21T13:44:00.001-08:00

We are EQUAL

2008-11-18T23:57:00.001-08:00

onlyoneofme7 Ep 38: Beyonce Video Phone, Hang-up,RATE SUCKS!

2008-11-17T21:45:00.001-08:00

2008-11-13T19:17:00.001-08:00

HIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII everyone,

Well it has been what a minute I have come to you with my thoughts, well im back. Lets just say life is like a book of lessons. Its up to you to look at those lessons and apply the results to your everyday life. If you see someone make a mistake and and you know where they went wrong…and even that you already know you still gonna do what they did and then it becomes your wrong. Take those lessons and apply them to do the right thing. Make it comfortable for yourself…

.... It might not matters to anyone else but it damn sure matters to me… I make my life the way I want it…

...and of course your gonna make mistakes because that's life… but its learning that you have to do to lessen the mistakes… life isn't easy…. I knew what matters to the heart even without experiencing it…. It takes a lot of patience and time for it to be right…you have to allow the garden to grow …. You cant plant a seed and wake up the next day and it's a big sunflower … im not saying that because I'll wait it will be right… who knows… I might be with them for 3 years and we might break up… I would rather that to be the case so ill know that it wasn't just some random dude…and he actually was a good person that I had learned from… ill be happy that he came into my life…instead of saying negative things…. I refuse to put up with this slutbucket behavior because it is not going to benefit me in the future…

...If you Don't like something change it.... you Like something get more of it....

....That's why I really haven't had a boyfriend……. don't rush into a relationship… in reality there is no such thing as time… time is a concept that humans created that navigate us through life… bottom line is to enjoy life and don't let people pressure you to do things you haven't figured out yet.. take your soo called time to figure out what you want out of life.. what you want your end point to be… don't go off by what other people try to tell you what to be,do are go… you should know what is best for you and if you don't know what is best for you … you should have took some time out and I swear if you take some time out and be with yourself and think to yourself to see what you want in life…and it might be hard for some because for those who don't take time out for themselves on a regular basis its harder for them to relate to themselves because its like their speaking two different languages and asking questions and getting answers but not the answer they don't understand are cant translate to away that you could apply to your everyday life.. so take that time at least once a week… are how ever you want… sit in the tub…think…take a long walk by yourself…and try to understand what it is that you want…and if your not happy with what you did today.., what are you going to do the next day to change it…what are you going to exchange for today? Like T.I. says, "Live Your Life." Im going to leave on this note....

"Great minds discuss ideas
Average minds discuss events
Small minds discuss people"

PEACE!
Todd

TonyaTko SUPER-STAR of her Own Life. Who's Starring in Yours??

2008-11-13T13:27:00.001-08:00

Family First Bull Shit Last

2008-11-12T14:22:00.000-08:00

TPH: WOW... it is amazing how family is still in your life through the bull shit! My family has been there for me the pass last months every minute I needed them! Like it is amazing how a family is the key to your success.

MY parents for one are really helping me out in college. WAIT... not only family but my grandparents... all of them! Plus my older Sister... now you tell me how many people can say that their full family is helping you through your hard times.... Iam blessed and living an amzing life!

People need to realize that do not worry about the BS that surrounds you every day... get pass it and live your life! Live the amazing life your creator has set for you. BE YOU and It may seem different, but be alittle selfish. It is okay to be selfish... love yourself first then the rest comes later! and My family has help me alot in see the full picture of what I can to school for.

November 12th Hot Find Of The Day: Chinese Laundry Tawny peep-toe heal

2008-11-12T14:14:00.000-08:00

NOVEMBER 12th Hot Find Of The Day: Chinese Laundry Tawny

$80.00

Metallic platform sandal
Peep-toe
Detailed stitching
4" stacked heel, 1" platform
Synthetic outsole
Adjustable buckle closure
Upper: 100% synthetic

November 7th-11th Hot Finds Throughout The Week

2008-11-12T13:52:00.000-08:00

November 7th Hot Find Of The Day: Love V-Neck Burnout Tee

$13.80
@http://www.forever21.com/

A sheer burnout short sleeve v-neck tee featuring a contrast "LOVE" graphic print in a brushed paint style.

TPH: WOW, Iam a guy but I just love this V-Neck Tee...and for only $13.80 I might just get this, but Ladies this is a must! Forever21 is one of my favorite stores hands down. For items you can afford the clothes are actually cute!.

November 8th Hot Find Of The Day: Jeni Tweed Coat

$37.80
@http://www.forever21.com/

A fashionable long sleeve tweed coat featuring front button tab belt loops, a 3-button closure, and padded shoulders. Fully lined.

TPH: Cute for winter!

November 9th-11th Hot Find: Silk kimono-sleeve top & classic jean

Silk kimono-sleeve knot top

$69.00

@www.bananarepublic.com

Decadent silk offers a lovely drape in our kimono-sleeve top. A tie-knot detail at waist is the perfect finishing touch.

Classic stitched straight-leg jean

$89.00

@www.bananarepublic.com

A solid indigo wash and a creased leg bring extra polish to our Classic straight jean. Navy stitch detail adds an element of whimsy.

'Christi' high-heel boot

$255.00

@www.bananarepublic.com

Sleek and sexy, this knee-high boot is a Fall essential. A platform sole and equestrian-inspired hardware at the rear lend this boot timeless appeal.

Onlyoneofme7 Exclusive news! with Trinity, Michael, Todd...

2008-11-11T15:53:00.001-08:00

7four

2008-11-07T22:57:00.000-08:00

onlyoneofme7 Ep 35: SINGLE LADIES! BEYONCE

2008-11-06T20:12:00.001-08:00

SUPER HOT FIND!!!

2008-11-06T08:46:00.000-08:00

S Loves C by Spring & Clifton Raglan Zipper Sweater

$78.00

Oversized fine gauge sweater made exclusively for Urban Outfitters. Cut with a crewneck trimmed with a zipper and finished with wide rib-knit trim. Exclusive to Urban Outfitters.

* Oversized fit

* Fits true to size

www.urbanoutfitters.com

TPH: OMG this oversized zipper sweater is HOTTTTT! I Just Love IT!!! please go out and buy it now!

November 5th & 6th Hot Find Of The Day

2008-11-06T08:36:00.000-08:00

Nov. 5th Hot Find Of The DAy: Snowball Hoodie Scarf

Get cozy in this seriously soft hoodie scarf (a scarf with a hood!) trimmed with tonal chunky fringe. Imported.

TPH: This is a must! So Cute for Winter! :)

$38.00

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/

Nov. 6th Hot Find Of The Day: Members Only Rubber Leggings

These Members Only (yes, Members Only!) rubber leggings are slim and sleek. Cut long they gather a bit at the ankle. Finished with a wide waistband can be worn up for a highwaisted look, or folded down. Made in the USA. Hand wash.

*Slim fit

*High rise

*Nylon, lycra

*Web exclusive

TPH: Still Stylish, and sexy! Can be mixed into any fall trend!

$88.00

www.urbanoutfitters.com

November 3rd, 4th Hot Find Of The Day(s) Precious Posies Stilettos,Men's "Vote Now" Tees

2008-11-04T20:19:00.000-08:00

Nov 3 Hot Find Of The Day: Precious Posies Stilettos

The sky-high stiletto heels of these adorable pumps are a sure-fire way to get attention! With its colorful flower print dotting the smooth faux leather exterior, rounded toe, and feminine curves, this chic style will have heads turning.

$26.80

@ Forever 21

Nov 4 Hot Find Of The Day: Men's "Vote Now" Tees

Whether you're an Obama guy or a McCain man, this timely graphic tee wins by a landslide when it comes to rocking the body politic.

$2.99

@ Old Navy

I VOTED! OBAMA WINS!

2008-11-04T20:08:00.000-08:00

onlyoneofme7 Ep 31:8 years from now.baby/travel/book/married

2008-11-02T15:00:00.001-08:00

November 2nd Hot Find Of The Day: Lace Yoke Gathered Top

2008-11-02T08:58:00.000-08:00

Go for a dark, romantic look with this gathered short sleeve knit top featuring an elegant high neck collar with toggle button closure, a see-through lace yoke, and a petite back keyhole opening.

Nov 2 Hot Find Of The Day: Lace Yoke Gathered Top

Not only it is sexy, but yet has a great look of class and POWER! Which fall loves women who take a chance and even though black might not be a super fall color, this sure will set the mood off right! For only $17.80.

Can buy at http://www.forever21.com/

November 1st Hot Find Of The Day: Velvet Peep Toe Booties

2008-11-01T12:45:00.000-07:00

My November Hot Find of the DAY! Each day for November I will be posting my hot find of the day item... It could be from shoes, hats, dresses, anything dealing with FASHION!

Nov 1 2008 Hot Find Of The Day: Velvet Peep Toe Booties $39.99

Go for an edgy look with these Velvet Peep Toe Booties featuring a velvet fabric, round peep toe, D'Orsay cut out, slouchy shaft, 4" stiletto heel, metallic lightly padded insole, and a back zipper closure. Top-to-sole length is 8". Faux leather upper and rubber sole.

Can buy at /www.charlotterusse.com

onlyoneofme7 Ep 30: On Hold... P*ssy Needs to be TIGHT! LOL

2008-10-28T10:28:00.001-07:00

onlyoneofme7 Ep 29: Black Gay Male Couples/Update

2008-10-28T10:12:00.001-07:00

onlyoneofme7 Ep 28: Miss Teen Louisiana USA loses her crown

2008-10-24T21:44:00.001-07:00

onlyoneofme7 Ep 27:

2008-10-23T11:55:00.001-07:00

onlyoneofme7 Ep 25: Giving Oral Sex In The Movies

2008-10-19T15:08:00.001-07:00

onlyoneofme7 Ep 22: Are You Straight?

2008-10-14T21:11:00.001-07:00

Bicurious? Bullshit...

2008-10-10T23:36:00.001-07:00

onlyoneofme7 EP #6: How long should I wait?

2008-10-03T05:33:00.001-07:00

onlyoneofme7 EP #10: SINGLE BY CHOICE?!

2008-10-03T05:32:00.001-07:00

Check out new video! :)

You CANT....convince a man to love you

2008-09-22T01:10:00.000-07:00

I will be soon talking about how many women and gay men cant convince any man to love them. This is just an intro onto the next topic and blog, I will be making a video too. Stay Tune! :)

Relationship Advice: Are You Dating a Man Afraid of Commitment?

2008-09-22T00:24:00.000-07:00

(all Genders, but let these shoes take place in a womans shoe, but like I said, Im speaking for all genders)

You are in a certain sistuation where you have this rare gentlemen in your presence, and you both are starting to notice both of your interests are similar and you start dating and spending time with one another more and more and this person becomes your boyfriend. Yes, its offical, he is yours and all yours, but without a ring on his and your fingers. Now im sure you have tried many times over and over about taking it to the next level. Every time you bring up the word marriage or maybe the word commitment itself, it sends him blank and lost, like he didnt hear what you said are probably didnt want to hear it. Why are men so afraid of commitment?

I would probably guess that maybe you both see the relationship very differently. Maybe he doesnt see you in his future as his wife. Maybe your really not the one he wanted forever. Not really good that he feels that way but its the truth many times, and manly the reason why many realtionships and marriages dont last as long as they should. Maybe he doesnt want to commit because he loves that little bit of freedom he has. Men love their privacy, and feeling as if he is the king that can do what ever he please, when ever he please, and at his own time. Men could still do that, just make sue you and your wife now have an understanding of "your time". Maybe have a certain day a week where you hardly talk to eachother that day, and do what ever you want, when you want, and the both of you dont have a problem with that. But of course, no cheating on your wife! Thats a no no!

Another reason why certain men wont commit, and I say certain men, is because many times the wrong guy that you really dont want to commit to you, end up wanting to take the relationship to a level you didnt want to get to. So for the certain men that wont commit, maybe they have gave their all to their last lovers, that they have been through so many problems and hurt, that maybe he feels where the relationship is at that moment, at its peak, is maybe best for him right now. He is to afraid of being hurt again and giving his all. So he is enjoying the relationship where it stands. IF he is a good man, and I mean good. You stay with that man until he is ready. And the wait is worth it. TRUST.

Well what do you do now? Whats the next stage in your relationship? Well you cant force someone to like you more, are even pressure them to marry you, then it would be a turn off and now the guy of your dreams crashed and vanished. Try to change his view on commitment, make him understand that, maybe you too have had a broke heart, and not even is perfect, but maybe he was put in that relationship for the betterment(a word?) of his other future relationships. Know what he is thinking, learn his way, and try to make him settle down with you, and make him trust you. Never stop being you! Be yourself, be the person that he first met. Maybe thinking soo much about it is killing the mood, stop thinking about marriage and commitment, because it has to come natural, and indeed it will. Stop being you, and once he realize what he has infront of him is a diamond, he will be willing and begging for a commitment. :)

TPH

Crazy In Love Black Book: What is LOVE?

2008-09-16T23:58:00.000-07:00

Welcome to another inside announcement from my "Crazy In LOVE Black Book" Well today we will both learn what love means from other people other then ourselves. I stated before what I thought about the word LOVE and as many of us know, it can be very painful with just a simple kiss.

Im sure many of you might know of the site Wiki Answers. Well for those of you who have never heard of Wiki; is a site where you can answer questions someone else has asked, are post your own question for feedback from others. Well I type in the question im 100% sure someone has asked before. That question was, what is love? (<-- Click here to review the answers) Okay after reviewing many answers, I came about some answers that, makes me what to talk more about.

The first answer, that I feel could probably go in my little "Crazy In LOVE Black Book" (what I call my in-my-head-love-book) under chapter WHAT THE HELL? Would be this, and I quote. "Love is when you care about someone else more than you care about yourself. It means you would rather make them happy than make yourself happy." HUMMM I gave that one alot of thought and I must say, this person must be a damn fool. Im sorry but I really dont get to personal but this person cant be serious? For one, I feel that before you even start to LOVE someone else you must first LOVE your self, and if you dont LOVE yourself first, then the relationship is not going to last over a month. Before anyone start a relationship they must love themselves first then express your love for yourself onto another, and share that love together, which would create a never ending love between the two. Now loving someone else more than yourself does sound alittle crazy, but in many relationships today people are loving someone more than themselves that, they forget about why they are even alive and living, that they are living for someone else and not even enjoying their life! People must stop and look in the mirror and realize what is going on in their relationship and how to get it back to 50/50 love.

The second answer that I found got me thinking pretty hard because for one, I never viewed love in the way they did, and still confused about it. The Answer states, and I quote, " ok listen up love is life no matter what any one says cuz in my research it has shown that more people die earlier when they dont have someone to share it with even if its family or your best friend someone you cant survive without love so to speak if its dumb love young love sexual love or even puppy love its still love and thats all we have in this world is LOVE". Okay, Its many things I agree with and some im confused about. I'am starting to think LOVE is LIFE. Without life, how could be even love, so of course love is life, but many people who are living are put into certain sistuations where its hard to love, and probably dont even know what true love means, more of what they was taught about love. This person said that "from their personal research, more people die earlier when they dont have someone to share it with. " Well you named all things living, but I find that confusing because its more then just people to love. Some people love writing, some people love Art, swimming, music, etc. It's no reason for more people to die earlier if they dont have someone to share their interest with because its many other things to love then people. Trust, if that is true, many people should start to love a hobby. Start somthing you love doing and be happy doing it!

Enough was said so far about what is love, that I hope you realize that love is one of many words without a definition. - TPH

We Made It

2008-09-16T17:26:00.000-07:00

A Poem that touched me in so many ways, I would love for you to watch and listen for yourself, and see how wonderful this poet is. We Made It by Sunnie Patterson.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXt4gh1cweQ

Sunday Fashion Style of The Day

2008-09-14T09:37:00.000-07:00

Every Sunday I will be picking and searching for the right style I feel that a woman/man should try atleast once are many times in his/her life. So today I have found some vintage styles that looks very fabulous at every angle.

This legendary Gray geometric diamond patter with lime trim at bottom hem, gathered in front and back at bust line would be perfect for a day of shopping, hanging with friends and family for a lunch, are even a nice casual date attire. This Geometric Dress can be found at a reasonable price for only $26.99 at dechoes.com

The perfect shoe for this vintage dress would be the Jessica Simpson Nichola, a black 4"Peep-toe, Oxford-style pump that is 100% leather and only for $89.00 at piperlime.com. And also one of Rachel Zoe favorite picks. This shoe will make the dress even more glam and chic with a price of attitude.

Now down to the jewelry. A simple shape would do the dress alot of justice. The theme is shapes... are far as the shape in the pattern of the dress and the nice shape pumps.... now the jewelry has to make a splash.... somthing that has to get you notice... well of course keep on the same road of vintage wear... this nice Coro Confetti Lucite Peter Pan Necklace Set is great for this outfit. The upside-down triangles give the necklace that wild Peter Pan look. Small pieces of golden foil are embedded in clear Lucite inserts with a pale buttercup yellow base. The fitting is smooth gold tone. Matching clip on earrings add their razzle dazzle to attract attention to your smile and to bring a spark to your eyes. Only $58 at vintagecostumejewels.com

Now with the perfect clutch, this nice light mulberry Nine West Precisely Gathered Clutch would be a perfect eye catching moment. This clutch along will bring that dullness out of the dress and turn the whole attire into a runway style that im sure Us weekly would vote number one for their best day outfit style of the month! This Nine West clutch can be found at piperlime.com for only $69.

Now that you have done your shopping, lets see how much all this will cost you, which could help you get a new date, even a job, who knows who you may come across from wearing this lovely attire. Grand total of... $242.99. I would say for all that you have just bought, and it added up to only $242, thats not bad for some of this nice vintage, and still designer items. Well I hope you love my Sunday pick. Enjoy!

Relationship Advice: Easy to LOVE, Hard to let LOVE go

2008-09-07T22:53:00.000-07:00

Love; Somthing that can be painful but yet everlasting happiness.( According to Todd's Definition) So why is it so easy to fall in love and hard to let love go.

First, Its only hard when you truely had deep love feelings for this person. When you start loving someone deep like that, of course its going to be hard, but why does it take along time to forget. The reason is because your scared none would ever love you the same way he/she did. You have to learn to know that, yes this person might have been the guy/girl of your dreams but every story isnt a happy ending. When you let a chapter go another chapter would open, and you will find someone that loves you probably even more than the last, but you have to make sure you can love again. If you cant get over the fact that your pass lover doesnt love you anymore, then your in trouble and in deep denial that your dream relationship that you told to all your friends and family that you finaly found the one that its really over. You have to get over it and move on! Your wasteiing time crying over love that is gone. Of course he/she is probably not crying over you, so why should you? Now move right after it happens. The longer you wait, the worst it will get.

Its soo easy to fall in love because you want to feel what love is and all the things it can do to you. You love the feeling of feeling loved and love someone else. Its a powerful feeling that Im sure everyone wants and would probably do anything to get it.... like putting in more work just so the person can notice you so they can love you. You do things to make them love you which I feel is stupid. Love should come natural between both people, and if it just doesnt come natural its not going to last as long as you want it to last. So try not to love so easy, and when you do that, when the love is over it wont be so hard to forgive.

- TPH

Crazy In Love Black Book

2008-09-03T14:11:00.001-07:00

Hello,

Well I would first like to start off by saying I have never been in a serious relationship with anyone. I know many of my friends and people I dont know is reading this but maybe my advice could help you with your relationship. People say the perfect advice is from someone who "been there done that"...well I say the perfect advice is from the person that listen to it all and was a eye-full ear-open stand by person. Which I would call myself that. Many of my friends tell me all their deepest secrets and love problems and how much they love their mate, and all I do is soak it in. Its nice to get head-ups from other people about their problems and problem-solving secrets to staying happy in love... are maybe unhappy in love. But I would say L-O-V-E is power. And with that power you must know how to use that power to your advantage. I will now list the steps on how to use LOVE to your advantage.

1. The number one rule to my LOVE Advantage black book would be, and I mean listen to what I tell you. First! You never love someone who doesnt love you. Never tell the person you love them if you have a feeling they dont love you back the same way. It is important to protect your emotions and your heart. Never give more than the other.

2. Now that you have control over your LOVE and emotions, your ahead of this lust your having with someone. Lets just say this person really likes you. You tell them all the negative things you get annoyed by what they say and do. They now realize that you have reasons to not really talk to them but yet your still dating. This makes the person feel like okay, maybe they need to just do alittle more to impress you, so now you kinda have them in the palm of your hand.

3. Let this person believe that you love them, but yet not risking your life. You would only do this if you truely feel that the relationship is going to blossom. This puts you at the top of their list, here they are thinking they really have your full attention. Tell them what they want to hear and do your own thing.

4. Love could also bring you gifts. Its nice to feel like a Queen or King in the relationship, when someone is showering your with extraordinary gifts. If someone really love you, are "like" you, they will try to impress you to their fullest, either taking you out but paying for it to be exact. Buying you gifts, but this is how they buy you gifts that you want. People now days dont want fucking flowers. Like OMG... flowers are good with the actual gift, but just flowers, I mean yes its romantic and sweet, but do you seriously want something that is going to die? That just shows that the relationship is dying. Get somthing that would last forever, but yet has memories. Nice jewelry would be great, I love fashion, so clothes is a plus! Just nice things that would really put a smile on your face. Now just because you like gifts doesnt mean your a gold-digger, it just means you have high standards and if a guy/girl would go beyond to et the things you want, then this person must be your dream guy/girl/

5. Final step. Now that this person is getting to know the things you like and what you dont like aabout them, show them your inner beauty. Let them into your world. I mean a sleep over would be cool. Let him/her hang out with your friends, to get to know the kind of crowd you hang around and things you really like to do when he/she is not around. Now that he/she has got to know more about you, they are for sure so in love with you its crazy! This is why my little love black book is called "Crazy In Love" because its crazy what love can do for you, and get for you to .

I hope this has help you learn alittle more about how love can change your life and others. But why do people want to be loved so much. Im single and not in love. And I love that. When the time comes, it will come. So I'll enjoy my single non-loving life while I have it, because when I do Love, I wont be able to love again or the same I hope.

Forever and a day,

TPH

Do people really have to change their personal style?

2008-08-29T12:27:00.000-07:00

Fashion changes every hour, everyday, every month and every year. Of course the new fashion comes from a pass era that made a statement at that time, but what about your time? I feel a person's style shouldnt be defind by a pass era, but more on their personal taste and style.

Take this lovely female as a perfect example. Do you really think this is her personal style? I mean, of course she looks "hot glam" but this is just a night out on the town, what about durning the day. Take her before photo. I feel maybe if you style up the outfit more, it would have her personal style, mixed in with alittle of whats in fashion now. Im sure she is very comfortable in what she is wearing. Im sure she would feel down and depressed if people around her is not accepting her style, so of course she is not going to love it either. But with advice that would help her style rather then say her style is not whats hot, style her outfit up.

First I would style up her hair. Long curly locks would do her just perfect. When you have the right hair style no matter what it is always 50% of how the overall look would get its positive feedback. After taking care of the 50% feedback part, you work on the other 20% which would be the makeup. It doesnt matter how well you dress, a person would love you for your beauty and it would blind them from how different your style is. When you give a person a nice face to look at, I know I wouldnt care how the person style is. For skin tone I would keep it natural, plus with her outfit. Very nice light brown lipstick, with a light blush of red, with a light dark eye shadow with nice long eye lashes. After the make up is set, you have taken care of 70% of your overall look. Now your only down to the 30%...no matter how much detail you add onto your outfit. Everything has to match up well, and one item are type of color could throw the whole outfit out onto the worst look of the week in Us Magazine. So with her personal style of loose light blue jeans and a brown jacket blazer I would style it up with just alittle add on accessories.

As you could see her jeans are just a little loose, so why not iron the jeans to make it less wrinkle and add some high heal boots to tuck the jeans in. Very dark brown leather boots would be perfect! This is a winter style if you didnt notice. After tucking the jeans inside of the high boots, i would pull some of the jeans out of the boot, because it is loose, and have a little fall over the boot to create a loose but yet feel goodstyle to show of the comfort of the jeans and the lovely high boots aswell. I feel that skinny jeans should be the only type to tuck inside of your boots. So now that the lower half of her outfit is done, now its time to work on the waist area. With the blazer open to show off the nice golden belt with a very little touch of her personal style.... A leopard print belt would be perfect. That little spice of jungle life always add a little wilde side to your style, which would show that you have a bubbly-fun-loving personality. After the waiste has been taken care of, now its time to work on the blazer. Okay with the blazer on, it has to be open to show off the statement that your trying to make, which is the top. The top is always the statement makers, which would display your mood. Lets just say her mood at this moment is "IDGAF" Translated in english would be I dont give a f*** . After picking out a top that would look good while the blazer is on and still look amazing off... a sleeveless turtle neck top would be perfect. Tucked into her jeans, the turtle neck would not only show off her curves but show of the leopard belt. No neck accessories!!! The ear rings must be simple. A nice oval shape dark brown button ear ring would be perfect, which would match the high dark brown boots. With a simple tiffany diamond bracelet and a huge diamond ring on the other hand would make a nice statment that shows off class. But yet setting a trend. Next is the purse. which would be a nice cluch leopard purse.

With all the add ons It could be a everday wear and a night evening wear, aswell as a night out with the friends at the club. Hope you take your personal style now and just mix it up with the right accessories and you would still have alittle you in your style mixed with whats hot now. Thanks!